Where people, science,
and happiness meet
ABOUT MyHappy    REGISTER     FAQ
 
 

Just Launched:

Welcome to our wonderful world of happiness. Here you can....
1) read about happines research
2) talk to others about happiness

More About Us

Our Favorite Ways to Improve Your Happiness:

Exercise
Sleep
Kindness
Meditation
Friendship
Spirituality

FEATURED ARTICLES:


Positive Psychology 101

Why We Are Happy

Reports from The 4th European Conference on Positive Psychology in Opatija, Croatia

European Conference Movie Presentation: What is your happiness?

The side effects of positive emotion

How much do you spend on retail therapy?

Dalai Lama: good action, constructive action, & compassion



 
 
 
 

April 18, 2008

Uglier, the better?

Filed under: Articles, Science — Tags: , , Dos @ 2:36 am

ugly]
Hollywood dictates that for every nice looking woman, there is a nice looking man. They would end up together and live happily ever after. Is this also applicable in real life? Apparently no. A new study released by the University of Tennessee suggest a different view about love and marriages.

The research, published in the Journal of Family Psychology studied 82 newlywed couples about their satisfaction as husbands and wives. The result was surprising: when the husband is, let’s say, less handsome, the happier their relationship.

Professor Jim McNulty offers an explanation, “Men who were more attractive than their partner demonstrated a tendency to offer less emotional and practical support to their wives.”

“Attractive men have available to them more short-term mating opportunities. This may make them less satisfied and less committed to the marital relationship.”

Economics may play a role here as both the male and female get what they want from a relationship and equity is gained. In general, men focuses on looks than women do. On the other hand, women value stability, loyalty and emotional attachment from a relationship

“The truth is that less attractive people are more successful at building long-term relationships, and happier in their relationships, than attractive people,” psychotherapist Dr. Tina B. Tessina said. “Attractiveness implies an unusual degree of attention to hair, grooming, makeup, fitness, etc. which also implies a higher than average degree of narcissism. All of us have some degree of narcissistic tendencies, but as the degree of narcissism rises, the ability to empathize, connect, give and cooperate goes down. Thus, attractive people have great self-enhancement skills (as well as good genes for facial and body symmetry) but not such great intimacy, faithfulness and partnership skills. No matter what the study says, I think the attractive women in those relationships are probably not great to live with. The men are just willing to give more and be in a thankless relationship because they’ve got such a hot babe.”

Source: www.dailymail.co.uk

Comments(0) Participate > >


 
 
 
  What is YOUR definition of happiness?


Psychology Today: Desmond Tutu on Compassion
Powys: Peace, trust, and friendliness make us the happiest place in the UK.
Robert Grady: Having a big family is happiness
Canal Club Menu: Happiness is… sushi on patios.
Jay Hendrickson: Don’t give up on life
The Buddha: Being happy the Buddhist way
Centenarian: Still rockin’ the house with happiness!
Amelie: The happiness in helping others
Dalai Lama: good action, constructive action, & compassion

Click here to submit your story and we'll post your story in our "What is Happiness?" section alongside the definitions of ancient philosophers, happiness researchers, media figures, and other site visitors like you.


Archived "What is Happiness?"
 
 

 
  Got Research?

MyHappy.com is offering $25, $50, or $100 via check or paypal for quality research article submissions.

Psychology researchers (especially graduate students who could use the beer money) are especially encouraged to submit.


Click here to submit.
 
 

 
  Latest Forum Posts:

Need help about internet-hosting!
Psychology Today: Women are happier giving and men are happier receiving
BBC: Lessons in being happy proposed
Psychology Today: Desmond Tutu on Compassion
Happiness 'rubs off on others'
Happy Thanksgiving 2008
Positive Psychology Daily: The Biology of Happiness
Psychology Today: Get unplugged for peace of mind.
The Power of the Present Moment
Happiness with Reality Therapy


Visit our Forums
 
 

 
  TAG CLOUD
 
 

Copyright © 2008. MyHappy. All rights reserved
About MyHappy | Register | Site Map | FAQ